Monday, July 5, 2010

"Froid pt 1..."

First of all, sorry for talking so long to put up a new post.  We have been with very limited Internet access at a weak signal at the best.  So, I will spend the next few posts catching up on information and pictures.

We have had a very interesting weekend.  But to start with, last week we were in Williston, ND and we had a wonderful time.  We spent much of the week refreshing old friendships and introducing the Mercy Ships ministry to many different people and places.  The best part of the week was spending time with Mike's 91 year old father.  It has been a very special time to be able to see him again and to sit and talk with him.  Then it was time for the weekend.
This last weekend was Mike's hometown, Froid, MT, centennial celebration.  Mike remembers marching in Froid's 50th anniversary celebration, so we planned our trip so we would be able to be at the 100th anniversary celebration.
Froid is a town of about 196 people in the NE corner of Montana-about 40 miles from the Canadian border and 24 miles from the North Dakota boarder.  It maybe a small town but it has big personality and a huge heart!  We thoroughly enjoyed our time with Mike's brother and sister-in-law (Tim and Sharon) and getting together with old friends.
One of the beautiful aspects of the Froid area is the country side.  A person can look for miles and miles and miles and see only open fields. 
When you first drive into Froid you have to enter between the elevators...yes they are still used today.
An old windmill that was on display for the centennial.   Mike says it reminds him of the one they used to have on the farm when he was growing up.
The kids and an old fire truck.
The kids renewed old friendships as spent the day riding around on four-wheelers and the cart...they had so much fun, it was hard for them to leave!
Finally-Happy 4th of July....
  Throughout the weekend we had a "good 'ol" small town parade, antique car show, fashion show...and lots of fun...stay tuned for more...

Monday, June 28, 2010

"Priceless pt. 3..."

Even that patients are getting into the excitment of the World Cup!

Friday, June 25, 2010

"A Wonderful Time..."

We have been in Medicine Hat, Alberta (Canada) visiting my brother and his family.  It has been a relaxing time of basically talking and doing nothing! (Which we all needed.) 
The above picture is the "World's Largest Tee Pee".
Last night we had a blast at the local bowling alley.  Which is a tradition among us...playing 5 pin bowling.  My once a year playing does leave me GREATLY handicapped when it comes to the scoring.  The kids on the other had just enjoy playing around!

We have had a very special time with Deb's brother and sister-in-law and family...we only wish it was not so far to have to see them more often!

We will head out today and start our drive to Williston, North Dakota (USA) to see Mike's father.  We have to take a longer route since Hwy Canada 1 was wiped out East of Medicine Hat due to flooding...God has His plans!  Please pray for safe travels as we head to North Dakota.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

"Update..."


Last Sunday Alisia and Joshua had a chance to share with  a Sunday School class about the ministry of Mercy Ships.  They had a great time explaining what we do and what it is like to a kid to live and go to school aboard a ship.  Joshua also had a wonderful time demonstrating how to play the drum.
Then we had to say good-bye to the Asselin Family-after we had a wonderful lunch and time of fellowship.  We promised that we would not wait another ten years to get together again!
We are now at Deb's brother's house in Medicine Hat Alberta.  We are thoroughly enjoying our time with them and the relaxation we are having-sunshine,eating breakfast outside, coffee, and family....what more could we ask for?!
The kids are having a great time together enjoying making up and video taping plays.  They all proudly wear their Togo "Football" (Soccer) jerseys around the house!
We will be leaving here on Friday to head to North Dakota to see Mike's dad and give another presentation at a local church.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

"Fun..."

Today we arrived in Calgary.  Even though Deb has not lived here for (I always tell myself..."Never do the math"...)...so 20 ...some years...she safely navigated the family through town to the hotel.  We then loaded into the car and spent the afternoon with Deb and Mike's friend and family from seminary Elisabeth and Richard...once again....I won't do the math! 
Mike and Joshua had a super father and son bonding time...fishing!
Joshua and Mathias caught 3 fish between them and had several get away.....
Alisia and Arielle had a teenage bonding time of walking and talking about "teenage" things...
We had a super afternoon and evening complete with a chicken, steak and of course fish BBQ!  Oh, wonderful relaxing moments!

Saturday, June 19, 2010

"Events..."

We have had several events over the last week. 
Last Sunday Mike had a chance to present Mercy Ships to our home church, Grace Baptist, in Lynden, Wa.  Even Alisia got into the event and was sharing with people.
Then Monday morning, we were invited to share with the local Kawanis Club in Lynden. 
After that Deb had coffee with her Mom's in Touch group.
On the more eventful side, Mike made a new friend...Sienna...
Alisia found out she needs glasses...
Joshua got his first paycheck...
Joshua had a WONDERFUL week with his bestfriend Jaron...
We started our trip to Calgary, Alberta....Deb was reminded how spectacular the Canadian Rockies are...
On another note, Mike's dad is doing well from his surgeryand is at his home recovering, and his cousin's surgery was postponed.  Thanks for everyone who prayed.

Please keep the rest of our trip in prayer.  We could use more people willing to support us on a regular basis-please keep that in prayer for us also. 


Thursday, June 17, 2010

"Akou..."

Many of you have seen our picture of Akou with her patient card during our presentations.  She was getting ready to have surgery as we left the ship.  I thought it would be great to update you on her surgery.
Akou is a precious lady with the most brilliant smile I have ever seen. Her teeth are so perfect, she should be on a Crest Whitestrips Commercial!!!!
Mercy Ships first met Akou at screening in February. She had a large tumor on her neck and shoulder. Our writer and photographer, Joy and Debra, interviewed her. Akou told them that she has only had the tumor for 5 years, and it has grown steadily over that time. She had several scars on the tumor, which she said were from "natural remedies"....essentially a witch doctor who attempted to cure her of the tumor. Obviously, his efforts failed, only leaving her badly scarred.

I met Akou for the first time with Tom while doing Pre-Op photographs. She was very downtrodden and had a look of despair on her face---even despite the fact that she was finally getting checked in for surgery!! (which should have been a joyous time!)

After Joy realized I was writing about her, she showed me the screening photos they had taken. This was brilliant, I thought!! We've covered this patient from step one: screening! Below are photos taken from the screening, and my favorite: Her bright smile when she received her Card which indicated her surgery date!!! She's IN!!
Akou Kewukpo at screening--you can see her tumor and scars from the witch doctor attempting to cure her.

Akou getting registered at Screening.
Waiting in line. Lots of waiting...waiting....hoping....wishing...waiting...
Inside the screening tents. Talking with a translator.
BINGO!!! There's that smile!
"Best day of my life" -Akou
Five months later, Akou went in for surgery with our Max Fax surgeon, Dr. Mark. Once he opened her up, he realized that her tumor was more advanced that previously thought. It had wrapped itself around several nerves and blood vessels. In order to remove all of the tumor, Dr. Mark had to cut the nerves that ran through the tumor. He knew this would have other affects on her body, but he spent a marathon 9 hours meticulously reconnecting every single nerve he had severed.

Akou was wheeled into D Ward after surgery. When the anesthesia wore off, she discovered that she could not lift her right arm. The nerve damage prevented her from raising her arm. She was confused and devastated. I thought the smile was gone earlier---but it was ESPECIALLY gone now :(
Meza & I talking with Akou after surgery. Visibly upset, she told that she couldn't move her arm. "I carry things all day long--for a living. What on earth will I do?" She was very shaken by the effect of the nerve damage.

Days passed and Akou began coping with the situation. Her tumor, which was removed completely, looked fantastic. But she told nurse Ali..."I am not ready to look at the tumor yet. I am still mourning over my arm."

Eventually, Akou's spirit came back. She began working with a physical therapist who has taught her exercises to regain motion. She would pick up beads from her bed and put them in a cup. Back and forth, over and over again.

When I knew the time was right I had something to share with Akou. This was sure to cheer her up. I printed out a large color copy of the photo of her beaming with her Surgery date card, and took it down to her. I told her I had a present for her. {Most of the african people rarely see pictures of themselves, so that is always a treat.}
She looked at me skeptically.

I handed her the picture.
She looked, a little flabbergasted. Absolutely speechless.
Then she broke into a smile.
"Do you remember this day?" I asked.
"Of course I remember it!! That was one of the greatest days."
"Do you remember how you felt that day?"
"I was SO happy. Way more than a small happy, BIG happiness! Oh, I wanted to RUN home. Fast Fast. Get there so that the days and weeks would pass quickly so my date would be here! That's all I could think about"

Then she did something amazing. She whipped out her small, red pocket mirror and gently cleaned it off on her hospital gown. Then, she held it up and admired her neck and shoulder: how beautifully sloped it was---and tumorless!! Then looked back at the picture of her 5 months earlier. She was amazed and consumed with JOY.

"When my hand gets better, I will be jumping up and down with my hands in the air in celebration!"

Then I told her that this picture was on the Mercy Ships website and that anyone throughout the world could see a picture of her. "You're famous, Akou!" She died [of excitement!]. She couldnt believe it!!

Witnessing this moment makes what I do worth it. I can say, with 100% certainty, that was the best moment since I've been on this ship. I don't make a dime being here,  but THIS was pay day.
We wanted to snap a few pictures of Akou and she was eating. Laughing, and eating :)
Beautiful smile! and NO tumor.
She is discharged from the ward and heading to the Hospitality Center.
It's a good day.

***Doctors believe that if Akou continutes the exercises for her arm, she should regain complete movement after one year. It is a very difficult situation to deal with, but given how advanced the tumor was, it was the only option. If not completely removed, the tumor would have eventually filled her lungs and killed her. We take what we can :)